Ask Linsey: Question from John (New York)

This week John from New York asks: “I like that Glubble allows me to see what websites my child has been viewing on the Internet.  What are some good ways I can use that information?”

Being able to track your child’s Internet activity with Glubble’s Kids Monitor isn’t about spying on your kid.  In fact, while it can give you more information on the places they might try to go, it’s best used as a tool for communication and learning.

Before your child even begins using Glubble, make sure that they know you can use Kids Monitor.  Explain to them that you want them to feel safe when online, and that you will use the information in Kids Monitor to help them stay safe.  Encourage questions regarding what is acceptable and what isn’t.  Let them know that it isn’t always black or white – there are many great websites that aren’t suitable for your child (at least not yet, anyway.)

After each of your child’s Internet sessions, take time to check the Kids Monitor.  Because it is located on your family page, you can see it anywhere (even at work).  Make a few notes about what your child did that day, searches they may have attempted, or websites they showed an interest in.  Use your new insight into your child’s browsing habits to open up discussion about their online activity.  Examples of open-ended questions include:

−    I noticed that you searched for turtles today.  Are you learning about them at school, or is this a personal interest that I can help you explore further?  There is an exhibit at the natural science museum on turtles this Friday.  Do you think you might like to go?
−    You’ve been spending a lot of time playing fashion games and activities.  I like that you are taking an interest in fashion.  Do you think there might be another kind of activity you would like to try next time?
−    I think it’s great that you have been using your computer time to practice your math skills.  I think 5 extra minutes of computer time would be a nice reward for all your hard work, don’t you?

Tracking your child’s computer use isn’t about being a “mean” parent.  It allows you to step in their shoes and see the world through their eyes.  By using the information you learn from Kids Monitor to encourage freedom and responsibility, you will open up communication and teach proper online habits in a natural and effective way.

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